I am sure no one is reading this anymore but I don't give a shit, I need somewhere to talk and this was the only place I could think of to do it that the person I am talking about wouldn't read it.
So a few months ago I dated a girl, I really liked her and we had been friends for a while. At the time things just didn't work out for us, she was really busy, and I was really busy and I was still not over Holly at the time. So we broke it off. But we stayed friends, and that was fine for a while. Of course the Holly thing didn't pan out, and I actually stopped being friends with her at all. Well the other girl and I started hanging out more and more, espically in the last month or two since she is moving to LA in June/July, so we have been trying to see each other as much as possible. Well I started to have feelings for her again, and I felt like she was having them too. So after thinking about it for a couple of days (or a week) I decided that I was going to sack-up and ask her back out. I figured that if I could come up with good answers for all of her objections to it then we could make it work. Well I did, and she said yes! I was really happy about it. (though in retro-spect I just hard sold her on the idea and just broke down her will to say no, I guess I did learn something selling cars) Well a week goes by, and I haven't seen her since, I have tried to but it just hasn't happened. So tonight I made the supid mistake of asking her friend if she has seemed a bit stand-offish or just off to her or if it was just to me. Well the friend of course just tells her every fucking word I said and she gets all pissed at me, and then pissed at me for thanking the friend for opening her mouth! After a long talk, all over AIM mind you, she ends the relationship. She just says that she doesn't want to get attached to me, only to break up with me in two months, because no matter what happens she is going to break up with me in two months. She is moving to LA single no matter what. She says all this BS about being bad at relationships and what not but I just think it's excuses. I am pretty upset about it, but I am only a little bit mad at her about it, I am not real thrilled with her friend for telling her what I asked as that seemed to spark the whole thing. She now says that if things are ment to be then they will be, but I have found that in life, that is bullshit. If things are ment to be and you don't fight for them they they don't happen. There is no MENT TO BE! There is only what you make happen. To quote the Terminator movies "There's no fate but what you make." Don't believe me sit on your ass and try to get a job, or get in shape, or get a girlfriend, just don't leave the house. You think that you are going to get any of those things?? Fuck no! No go out and try to get a job, I bet you can, go out and try to get in shape, I bet you can, girlfriend I bet so too. You know what the more I type all this the madder I am getting about it. I am also pretty pissed because I just spent like $100 on costume shit for a costume just to go with one she made...GOD DAMN IT, I could have spent that money on something else.
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Your right, about it all. I think you deserve better then the crap life brings you, but dont stop trying. If you dont try then you'll secure the fact that you will never get anything or anywhere.
Ive seen you overcome some of the worst crap anyone i know has had to go through. Youve been beaten down over and over again more times then i can count...and what do you do everytime??? You fight, you adapt and you overcome. Look at you these days...you look freaken amazing. You are incredibly talented in your costuming skills and you have a determination like no one else i know.
I know you'll be ok. Your not one of my friends that i worry about. We'll just have to wait and see what happens next.
Trust me I know the world can be a lonely place, but your not alone. You'll always have me as a friend, 10 years is a long time to actually be friends with someone and i really think your the only one that ive known for that long that i still consider a good friend.
You'll pull through.
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